Friday, August 22, 2008

Week #2

Ok so as promised Im back for another edition.

I really hope that you guys approached at least 10 women last week. If you HAVEN'T done that then I urge you to STOP reading this post RIGHT now and NOT to read it UNTIL you have done the exercise from week 1. If your really committed to getting this shit handled then your going to do it the way you need to do it. That means taking it one step at a time and keeping it simple.

Now if you HAVE done the exercise i urge you to read on:

After approaching these 10 women I am sure that you found that it is not as bad as you thought. Some of the women were probably receptive and others were probably nervous and scared and maybe even took that out on you. Remember that women are emotional creatures, they really live in the emotion that they feel. That's why you can fuck them so easily if you know what your doing and thats also why they can fuck you over if you don't.

Now this week is actually really really simple. Your starting to get into approaching women. You have built a little confidence to know that you can. You realize that at first it is hard but once you get going it's like jumping into cold water and having your body adjust to it. It's like when you were a kid and would jump in the water and spend the whole afternoon going in and out of the water.

If that's NOT how it was for you then this exercise will probably bring it home for you.

This week I want you to approach 20 women but the caveat is simply this:

I want you to approach only on 2 seperate days of the week. That means I want you to go out twice and I want you to approach 10 women in the same day on each day for a total of 20. The REASON I want you to do this is so that you can get use to understanding the various responces you will get. This is to make sure that you understand and have a real life reference point for how this is really a timing and numbers game. If your approaching 10 women you will see at least a few approaches where the woman is somewhat responsive. I want you to see this for yourself. Trust me that the exercises are going to get a lot more fun and interesting but the actual approach, and the experience I want you to get from the actual act of making the decision to approach woman is VERY VERY IMPORTANT. You hang in there as LONG as you can but you approach 20 women, 10 each day. The point of this exercise is not only to step it up a notch but to get you to realize 2 important things:

1) The more you approach the more momentum you get or the less you care about the outcome. If things start to go well or you get a few women who you have a descent interaction with -- you start to have fun and learn that you don't have to be perfect or have every approach go well in order to have fun talking to new girls. On the other hand if things just happen to not go well and you keep approaching it teaches you that this really doesn't matter and that the power of action lies in YOUR hands. You start to stop caring how it goes because you realize that your taking things in your own hands and that the latest no is just one no closer to the next yes. It doesn't kill you.

2) I want you to realize that this is a numbers game and not all women respond the same way, you will get various reactions.

Get out their young grasshopper and do it up, and remember that this is VERY important. Review the video as many times as you want with Mystery. I want you guys to get good at approaching and I know right now that these exercises are dry as hell but if you have ever seen Karate kid it's wax on wax off shit right now. This is your foundation. Me love you long time. Onwards grasshopper.

1 comment:

Halffull said...

I love the concept man... looking forward to see what else you come out with